Now came the hard part: finding the patterns. I dumped everything into a doc and started grouping. Literally made headings: Stuff about criticism, stuff about control, stuff about communication… It took hours! I’d group, then step back, ask myself “Is this really the same thing?” then re-group. Slowly, the big, ugly categories started emerging. It wasn’t just “they’re critical” – it w... https://aboutvirgo.com/